tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8358039.post4290905396451866941..comments2024-03-25T15:17:04.488-07:00Comments on Captain Capitalism: The Over-Supply of Single MomsCaptain Capitalismhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05620212946121617985noreply@blogger.comBlogger33125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8358039.post-70499713358873823532017-08-19T17:07:22.157-07:002017-08-19T17:07:22.157-07:00Get rid of the welfare state & I guarantee you...Get rid of the welfare state & I guarantee you the single mom problem will fix itself.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8358039.post-80402905839408410272017-08-19T17:04:36.312-07:002017-08-19T17:04:36.312-07:00If a single woman has kids, RUN! Don't date he...If a single woman has kids, RUN! Don't date her. Don't have a relationship with her. Don't f her, & whatever you do, don't marry her! <br /><br />They're called "damaged goods" for a reason.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8358039.post-10714716937317541892017-03-05T18:25:45.389-08:002017-03-05T18:25:45.389-08:00Well said!!Well said!!Luke Johnstonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07109425576709753629noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8358039.post-6755293395942001162017-01-10T22:05:07.020-08:002017-01-10T22:05:07.020-08:00This is an ugly topic, yet one that obviously need...This is an ugly topic, yet one that obviously needs direct attention. One writer mentioned that a solution would be to totally ignore single moms, except ones that had a legitimate loss of a HUSBAND. Any "girl" who will sleep around, automatically disqualifies herself as being available, period! <br />If she is unfaithful enough to sleep around, she will also be unfaithful to you AFTER you get together. If her character level is so low as to allow her to be a slut before you get to know her, after you know her won't be any different. Were talking about mental programming here, meaning that what a girl learns as she's growing up, she will continue to do after dating age. She won't magically change just because she met you. <br />This is like insurance. As ?long as its available or required, be sure the price will go up and fraud will proliferate. If insurance were not required, the market would seek its own level. Women are like this. They KNOW they get away with all sorts of corruption, so they do! As horrible ad it may sound, what is hard core needed, is to have it very publically drummed into girls heads that if they xchoose to spread their legs, strong consequences are heading their way; and I mean strong! "Men", who run away from the mothers, are also dealt with strongly and without apology. <br />One problem...of one side decides to screw the other side by divorce, there HAS to be a hard core investigation as to why, who wants it and possible solutions. Having a baby needs to be taken with exceptional seriousness, sleeping around needs to be shamed at highest levels. I know some will think of " The Scarlet Letter" from the past, but there was a reason that story was written. Having babies is not something to be taken haphazardly. This is another life being brought into the world, not a pet! "Men" (and I use the term loosely) who impregnate and run, I'd have no problem cutting off the nuts, literally! Either that, or tie them to a tree in southwest Florida in the swamps for a week, an if there's anything left alive in 1 week, let them loose. There needs to be extreme penalties for this vulgar behavior. What these guys do affects everyone, not just them. Either they pay, or they PAY! She, too, will be totally accountable. <br />In my lifetime, I've seen so much female scum wandering around, it makes it hard to sleep. It is THEM that has to keep their legs closed. No male can do anything, except rape, UNLESS SHE GIVES HER PERMISSION!!! SHE is the one who is ultimately responsible for a lot of this. <br />There's an old comical sqying;:<br />Smart man + Smart woman= Marriage<br />Smart man + dumb woman= Affair<br />Dumb man + Smart woman= Sugar daddy<br />Dumb man + Dumb woman= Pregnancy<br /><br />There's no penalty for bad behavior anymore. It's rewarded. <br />As much as I don't want to say it, it may be better to be alone than have a bad "relationship". <br />To close, there's also one more saying that might help to get the point across. It is:<br />Better to want and not have, than to have and not want.<br /><br />Tough words, to be sure, but we're living in very bad times, times never before seen on earth. <br />Please guys, think carefully, investigate thoroughly, and ask many questions. Of your questions are met with disdain, keep moving and don't look back. A restful night's sleep with the one you TRUST is priceless. Sleep with an anchor, is like loving death. Remember the old question, "Why do men die sooner than women? BECAUSE THEY WANT TO!" SOME WISE MAN, YEARS BACK, CAME UP WITH THAT! Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8358039.post-83021004192422445642016-12-01T16:29:10.533-08:002016-12-01T16:29:10.533-08:00There are tons of single, never been married, chil...There are tons of single, never been married, childless women in their early 30s. I think youre not looking in the right places. Also many of these women are well educated and can (and have) provided for themselves since after college. Sure there may be lots of moms, but theres also enough selection of the childless women too. You may have to use online dating and search tools on these websites to weed out the women with children, but to say you cant find enough women to date is silly, you really just need one. And in defense of the single moms, no one wants to be in this situation. If they left the fathers it was probably an abusive situation, or something else you would or could be compassionate about, but theres still enough choice out there that you would never have to date a mom if it was something you weren't into. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05374135686392774260noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8358039.post-67578126618855793802016-11-21T12:47:14.387-08:002016-11-21T12:47:14.387-08:00Amen!Amen!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8358039.post-79609837424987099312015-10-22T05:30:39.460-07:002015-10-22T05:30:39.460-07:00I worked with a single mom with three different da...I worked with a single mom with three different dads. She got something else to put a ring on it. She was a 4.5 or 5 on the 10 scale. She was picky as heck too. She wasn't obese thought so...Tony Trucanohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12616436245882095801noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8358039.post-42097217301010055332015-10-11T14:02:02.354-07:002015-10-11T14:02:02.354-07:00I have a better idea. Instead of being "force...I have a better idea. Instead of being "forced" to date and marry a single mother, how about instead refusing to date anyone until finding a situation that actually enhances your life? There are worse things than being single. One that comes to mind is ending up with someone with a lunatic ex and her snotty kids who all see me as a walking ATM.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8358039.post-18577495966489460902015-10-09T15:18:03.461-07:002015-10-09T15:18:03.461-07:00OK, we've got, if the data match well (OK, if)...OK, we've got, if the data match well (OK, if), then we'd assume that the average single mom has children by two different fathers. It's like that Detroit sticker where the single mom has about 15 kids by four or five different, incarcerated, men.<br /><br />I would guess reality is that about half of single moms have children by one, about a fourth by two, and the rest by three or more, but that's just my guess at the distribution. This would explain why so many single moms aren't getting child support--can the dads afford two or more different payments?--as well as why single parenting drives our welfare spending.Bike Bubbahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08193546045614393425noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8358039.post-41233006951668830162015-10-09T12:52:21.570-07:002015-10-09T12:52:21.570-07:00whatever you do, if you are a man, never ever adop...whatever you do, if you are a man, never ever adopt your wife's /girlfriend's children. This puts you on the hook for child support. why giver her one more reason to dump you? You will be there supporting them but she will know if she dissatisfies you, they are no longer your problem.<br /><br />With that said, just marry young and have your own:<br /><br />https://wisdomdistillery.wordpress.com/2014/07/05/stop-looking-for-a-soul-mate/<br /><br />Joe Richardshttps://wisdomdistillery.wordpress.com/2014/07/05/stop-looking-for-a-soul-mate/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8358039.post-57073220461379967942015-10-09T12:31:08.671-07:002015-10-09T12:31:08.671-07:00The Manosphere offers only a partial victory. It s...The Manosphere offers only a partial victory. It seems to imply that real victory is impossible, and so offers a way to cope with the shreds and shards of what's left. This is giving up. But I don't think men should kid themselves that all is well over there. There is no point fudging: real victory is to have a tribe of your own. A tribe of your own means you are pleased with your wife and children and they are pleased too to be your wife and children, with everything that comes with that. It's your tribe.<br /><br />I respect all people and both sexes.<br /><br />I do not think a man should marry a woman who won't change her last name to his, and no hyphenated combinations of both names. His name. Only. And I ALSO don't think a man should waste much time or money on any woman who wouldn't dream of marrying him, more or less right now. And having his children. More or less in the quite foreseeable future.<br /><br />There are ways of making remarks into the air about your views, in a jokey way, that get these issues right out into the open fairly early in a conversation. Without being confrontational, or contentious, or arguing, a man can state his views airily into the air, talking past a woman, and the ones who think he is nuts will run. Good. Let them run. The idea is to see who does not run. There is no point dating for six months and finally finding out what the woman thinks and feels about these things. <br /><br />A woman who isn't about to do those things for a man isn't worth very much of his time, energy, or money. No harming in chatting, but buying actual important things for such a person? Such as dinner, genuine solid food, and alcohol? No. Coffee and cake only. Early in the day. <br /><br />Are you the Red Cross, to be feeding strangers? Leave that to the Red Cross. You should only feed people who aren't strangers. Meaning, family. Meaning, people who, if things work out, would be willing to become a member of your family. <br /><br />A woman who is never going to be family should only get coffee and cake. And what's the point of even that?<br /><br />In her turn, a woman should say to a man who wants more from HER, that she spends her evenings only with family. A meaningful smile after that means, "if you want to see me later than sunset, become part of my family. That does not mean being my boyfriend. It means marrying me." <br /><br />A smart woman spends her days with anybody she thinks is nice, but evenings with family. Only. <br /><br />While having raised her value as high as she can get it. There is no substitute for being worth the price you are asking.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8358039.post-43600423733864437052015-10-09T10:49:42.758-07:002015-10-09T10:49:42.758-07:00I'm curious how the percentages would change w...I'm curious how the percentages would change when broken down to identify single/unmarried mothers and fathers from single/divorced mothers and fathers.CA3https://www.blogger.com/profile/17367795271836700574noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8358039.post-12575239114596528032015-10-08T20:15:08.996-07:002015-10-08T20:15:08.996-07:00I want to remark that other people's children ...I want to remark that other people's children may be annoying, but one's own just are not perceived the same way. <br /><br />Other people's children smell wrong. They don't smell BAD. They just smell WRONG. Wrong for you. It's mammalian physiology and it's normal. Your own children smell right. Their cries and screechings sound all right too. It's other people's children's cries that sound like chalk on a blackboard. You may not adore to hear your own children cry, but it's not the same. It's all in the family.<br /><br />People shouldn't be afraid to have children, because they are annoyed by other people's children. It will not be the same thing at all.<br /><br />Your own food tastes good, but do you love to see other people chew? No. It's like that. What's yours is all good.<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8358039.post-90794653233960143782015-10-08T18:28:31.802-07:002015-10-08T18:28:31.802-07:00To sum up what The Question said above, use Rollo ...To sum up what The Question said above, use Rollo Tomassi's saying on The Rational Male Blog. It's ALPHA FUXS/BETA BUX!!! You as a childless male taxpayer are supposed to pay for someone else's bastard spawn according to female hypergamy, feminine imperative and feminist indoctrination. You as a man are not a human being with value in this system because you are only valued as a monstrous beast who is only allowed to live and function as long as you keep paying into the system and you are an Automated Teller Machine.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8358039.post-65286891542381715612015-10-08T17:32:24.672-07:002015-10-08T17:32:24.672-07:00Reasonable candidates might be a liberal arts majo...Reasonable candidates might be a liberal arts majors with no debt and two years of seeing what that has got her, in terms of crowded living with roommates and the joys of office politics. Such a one might find marrying a man, having children, and not working (she's probably already not working!) an honest living. This sort won't leave you. You are her only option. Before you go any further than having coffee, she should be ok with marrying, several children pretty fast, and not, not working. (Her career didn't happen anyway.) <br /><br />But don't chase or plead. Put yourself in a position where you are the one who is approached. And tell her it must be SHE who makes the calls for the second and third coffees. <br /><br />Not you.<br /><br />Run it up the flagpole and see who salutes. Don't you do the saluting.<br /><br />After a while, later, have yet another child just to be quite, quite, sure. No part time jobs. Only the most useless courses, for amusement. Nothing practical. <br /><br />Feed her rich desserts. You want her plump and staying. <br /><br />And be nice. While she is home schooling your brood, of course she can have a maid to do the laundry and errands. She's a lady not a slave. A lady who was rescued from cougar-hood by you. Be nice. But she must not work.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8358039.post-5607164923741456242015-10-08T14:13:17.208-07:002015-10-08T14:13:17.208-07:00I have found I get hit on once a week by single mo...I have found I get hit on once a week by single moms. At work, on the street, in stores, in parks. Are they crazy? Why would any man get involved with a woman who wants you to raise another man's child?Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16046202647270439670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8358039.post-71627571260845239342015-10-08T14:04:03.276-07:002015-10-08T14:04:03.276-07:00way way easier solution
date younger
i think guy...way way easier solution<br /><br />date younger<br /><br />i think guys are fooling themselves if they think any women are particularly interesting, no matter how old. young ones can be vapid, but single moms aren't single because they are so eminently irresistible or entertaining. think girls go from 25 to 35 studying the real world?<br /><br />save thoughtful conversation for guy friends, and find girls that are more appealing to your baser self. it's a win-win. harness the efficiencies of specialization!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8358039.post-26183407338938894132015-10-08T13:18:41.290-07:002015-10-08T13:18:41.290-07:00All real men should boycott moms. That's about...All real men should boycott moms. That's about the only way this insanity might end. Plus, they're mostly trash.HawkManhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10617264176154870835noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8358039.post-76762941223621979992015-10-08T13:07:39.273-07:002015-10-08T13:07:39.273-07:00This is where you have to evaluate the pain level ...This is where you have to evaluate the pain level of dating a 20something female as compared to raising another man's spawn.<br /><br />This is where you have to have strong leadership and direct the 20something female the way you want her to go. You cannot simply let her direct the relationship in any way she wants, because that's what all the other guys do. Plus, if you are looking for your own children you need to go young. <br /><br />If it was easy to do, we'd still be back in the 50's. It's not easy, but it depends on how bad you want it. <br /><br />Realize that you are all enjoying the decline, and this is one of those natural consequences. If it troubles you, like it does Roosh, go do something about it. 7916https://www.blogger.com/profile/01881208775905627898noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8358039.post-8918183349462212622015-10-08T12:51:03.457-07:002015-10-08T12:51:03.457-07:00Anon second comment: I actually have met one woman...Anon second comment: I actually have met one woman like that, her husband was killed in the sandbox. In spite of her saying she was over him and that they had been in the process of falling apart anyway, she was not over it and was excessively needy. She also had three mulatto kids -- which did not work for me at all.<br />She was just as needy and clingy (but very nice) as the kindergarten teacher I dated whose husband had left her for a younger, prettier woman -- who also said she was "over him", but she wasn't, and I was basically rebound guy. It ended badly.<br /><br />Anyway, these types of women are just another brand of crazy, that's all. The ones who end up in single mommery for reasons beyond their control tend to be generally nicer and better people, but just as nuts. Just different nuts :-)<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8358039.post-83036587931561345462015-10-08T10:28:39.254-07:002015-10-08T10:28:39.254-07:00Nothing wrong with "Dating" a single mom...Nothing wrong with "Dating" a single mom (provided she is hot and has a non-toxic personality) as long as you follow certain rules:<br /><br />1.No Marriage<br />2.No Cohabitation<br />3.No Exclusivity<br />4.Don't get involved with her kids<br /><br />Simple....<br />TheSickManOfEurope_comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8358039.post-51626641272845254562015-10-08T09:19:40.320-07:002015-10-08T09:19:40.320-07:00This unnatural situation is maintained and sustain...This unnatural situation is maintained and sustained in two critical ways.<br /><br />1. Welfare state/child support. Without the guaranteed financial support of the government many or guaranteed income from child support payments, women would take measures to avoid getting pregnant. The fact is women have so many forms of affordable birth control at their disposal, the "accidental pregnancy" is a joke. Any women who gets pregnant in the Western World does so consciously or indifferently. They keep making the giant hypergamous leap across the pregnancy canyon, so to speak, because they know if they don't reach the other ledge and fall down into the canyon there will be a net to catch them. <br /><br />2. Social engineering via feminism <br /><br />There is a huge push to take away all stigma from single motherhood through magazine articles, TV shows, movies, etc. They almost make it a trendy thing to do. They also encourage men who otherwise could find a childless, never-married woman to instead "man up" and care for a single mother and her children in order to compensate for the absence of the real father. If there were social consequences for their behavior, or if they knew that becoming a single mother would severely limit their future options for a long-term relationship, they would avoid it. <br /><br />The situation will only change when either one or both of these elements weakens.The Questionhttp://anarchistnotebook.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8358039.post-31402537764778717142015-10-08T08:22:15.010-07:002015-10-08T08:22:15.010-07:00NB, in this climate, your sexual market value must...NB, in this climate, your sexual market value must be very high, and it must also not look as if you fuss about your looks, at the same time. This involves eating intelligently and keeping mildly fit, but without being a fitness nut (that's narcissism) and NOT talking about it. Nothing is more disgusting than a woman who chats candidly about her hair and weight concerns. Shush.<br /><br />Go blonde, and spend the money to have that done professionally, artistically, subtly. Yes. Blonde.<br /><br />Dress like a lady. But that you obviously do already. But you may not be blonde. You don't sound blonde. <br /><br />Dress more expensively, up two notches. Skirts. Not pants. No rings, none at all. <br /><br />But in very quiet taste. YES people can tell the price of your clothes. From a block away, NB. YES the men read every single minute detail of your appearance, as a message about you. The least educated teenage delivery boy knows the story. Oh yes. This is the hunter sex. They can see one leaf move in the forest and know what it means.<br /><br />Get your teeth bonded so they are white, white.<br /><br />Have trim hands but no fancy manicures, which look self-centered and high-maintenance. Yes. Wear nail polish. Pale, modest color.<br /><br />Wear good French perfume. Not tons, but wear it. Every single day. <br /><br />Learn to walk in a low but thin heel. No sneakers, no stilts. <br /><br />Then, do nothing. See who approaches you. Don't shop. Don't look around. Wait.<br /><br />They will be approaching you very differently now. Power is nice, NB, get some. Do NOT talk to anybody, just a civil smile but no talking, who isn't up to your level.<br /><br />Now that you are a classy blonde. <br /><br />Every woman is one pair of tinted contacts and one trip to the hairdresser away from looking GOOOOOD.<br /><br />But they don't think.<br /><br />YOU can think. It's impressive. <br /><br />Men know ALL about increasing THEIR OWN value, and sweat blood every day in the workplace to do just that. They HATE when women don't bother to increase THEIR VALUE. They HATE that so many women think "they just have to be themselves" and not try. Or turn self-care into fuss-potting and complaining and self-focus. Get your image done and think about something else. Don't become self-fascinated. Men can read that, too. <br /><br />Men want a wife who is as mature and organized and serious as they are themselves. That includes appearance. Men aren't allowed to complain and they expect the same in women. <br /><br />But the social problems you cite are real, and not your fault.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8358039.post-11140788580159455262015-10-08T04:24:18.547-07:002015-10-08T04:24:18.547-07:00I have a few qualms and thoughts about this too Ca...I have a few qualms and thoughts about this too Captain.<br /><br />In the Dirty Thirties it wasn't uncommon for single women to throw their kids out when they remarried. It happened to my grandmother - at the age of 12. She literally had no childhood - she got pitched on the street and spent her youngest years working and raising her younger brothers and sisters in the midst of a depression. Today's screeching, bitching femcnuts love to cluck about 'powerful, capable women...'. They have no freakin' idea what one is. She was a regal lady in her last years, who always smelled like fine leather and perfume and was always flawlessly made up and put together. If they ever make a time machine, I am going to go back in time and have a word with her stepfather and mother - by hand. As JD proves at 5:21 - there is no shame or humiliation in doing good by kids. Nor is there any shame in trying to make a relationship work. If you did your part and your marriage fell apart - whether you are a woman or a man - you have nothing to be ashamed of.<br /><br />I propose an acid test with regards to single moms with kids and pondering serious relationships with them. It is my contention that if you are going to pay for their upbringing and share a home with them - you MUST have a say in their parenting and the mother HAS to agree to this without reservation - just as if you were their natural father. She must understand that if you are to replace the father, that means you impress YOUR values on them, YOU will discipline and spank them if required, and you will have carte blanche in setting household rules and expectations just like any father would in a household. Not only that - YOU will be the head of the family and she will defer to you as a wife should, understanding that your top priority will be the care and well being of your family. If she balks at any of that - you end the relationship right there and move on because her only interest in you will be as an ATM. That isn't good for you, it isn't good for her or the kids.<br /><br />That's my two cents - as an old world stubfart that knows nothing about the subject.Glen Filthiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03256741311142364722noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8358039.post-90154885926098592852015-10-08T03:35:54.829-07:002015-10-08T03:35:54.829-07:00This is not what I would consider a recent develop...This is not what I would consider a recent development. Science of genetic data tells us that throughout history this has been the case: http://www.livescience.com/47976-more-mothers-in-human-history.html<br /><br />Theories abound as to why this dynamic persists but like most patterns of human behavior we can trace it back thousands of years.Norokhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17203266328973278051noreply@blogger.com