I would suggest that a majority are not even looking. They have adopted a 'lone wolf' attitude and have not even considered that the alternative down steam of their lives will be lonely and with cats. For a woman that realization comes early and will not be escaped once achieved.
Because women love the word "no" and hate the word "yes."
You've got that backwards, Cappy. The word "no!" from a man is like kryptonite or sulfuric acid to a woman. It also tears away their thin facades of adulthood, revealing them to be the spoiled, undisciplined five-year-olds that they really are. Now-dead social customs and expectations once kept that behavior in check, but no more. No sane, responsible male adult today wants to be shackled to a spoiled, feral, out-of-control toddler for the rest of his life.
You have to figure we currently live in the type of social climate where even a couple who "have the hots for each other" can't just naturally "let loose", even in private, without the need for the presence of an arbiter recording and taking note of the entire transaction so as to protect either party from the possibility of one deciding to engage in some kind of conspiracy against the other in the event said relationship turns sour and feelings of bitterness turns to "need for revenge".
Women LOVE the word "no" when they get to use it, principally when it's directed at men or a man that they find 'unattractive'. When the tables are turned and men use the word "no" to them, these same women lose their minds and practically froth at the mouth; it's truly a sight to behold (at a safe distance, of course).
Ditto for some of us women. Hard to find a good man with a back bone that isn't afraid of a woman who can support herself, take care of herself and isn't bat-shit crazy (the pyscho chicks always seem to have a boyfriend).
I would suggest that a majority are not even looking. They have adopted a 'lone wolf' attitude and have not even considered that the alternative down steam of their lives will be lonely and with cats. For a woman that realization comes early and will not be escaped once achieved.
ReplyDeleteBecause women love the word "no" and hate the word "yes."
ReplyDeleteYou've got that backwards, Cappy. The word "no!" from a man is like kryptonite or sulfuric acid to a woman. It also tears away their thin facades of adulthood, revealing them to be the spoiled, undisciplined five-year-olds that they really are. Now-dead social customs and expectations once kept that behavior in check, but no more. No sane, responsible male adult today wants to be shackled to a spoiled, feral, out-of-control toddler for the rest of his life.
You have to figure we currently live in the type of social climate where even a couple who "have the hots for each other" can't just naturally "let loose", even in private, without the need for the presence of an arbiter recording and taking note of the entire transaction so as to protect either party from the possibility of one deciding to engage in some kind of conspiracy against the other in the event said relationship turns sour and feelings of bitterness turns to "need for revenge".
ReplyDeleteWomen LOVE the word "no" when they get to use it, principally when it's directed at men or a man that they find 'unattractive'.
ReplyDeleteWhen the tables are turned and men use the word "no" to them, these same women lose their minds and practically froth at the mouth; it's truly a sight to behold (at a safe distance, of course).
You mean a chubby, blue haired feminist cant find a 6ft 8 underwear model that makes millions of dollars a month????
ReplyDeleteA lot of men have just stopped looking. I have.
ReplyDeleteDitto for some of us women. Hard to find a good man with a back bone that isn't afraid of a woman who can support herself, take care of herself and isn't bat-shit crazy (the pyscho chicks always seem to have a boyfriend).
ReplyDeleteYou want to Google the "hot crazy matrix" that will tell you why.
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