The push back is coming against HR departments thinking they are entitled to your personal lives.
Ladies, I suggest you read this (language warning) and note his angry tone.
You have the choice of writing off the angry tone as
1. Somebody who obviously has problems
2. Realizing you're the one with the problem
Oh, and it isn't just men who are angry, so you just sit and think long and hard what happens to your pool of selection when you decide you're entitled to our personal lives.