I forget the movie, but it was a scene starring Vince Vaughn and the actress from Legally Blonde. The clip was sent to me by a young lady saying “this is so what I want from a man.” And in the scene, Vince Vaughn approaches the girl at a bar in a standardly awkward approach and she not only summarily shoots him down, but in a derisive and insulting manner.
Vince Vaughn accepts the rejection.
Is about to walk away with his tail behind his legs dejected.
But then stops.
His eyes widen.
He turns around and yells out
“Listen Bitch! I'm from Fargo! And around there I don't take shit from women like you and blabbity blah blah blah, something something dark side, something something complete.”
This then demonstrates his masculinity, passing her shit test, and then she passionately kisses him and I think they fuck or something.
I couldn't remember the details because it was so cliché.
Regardless, the only thing I could think about was not how typical this was for a female to say “this is what I want,” or how I respect Vince Vaughn as an actor. All I could think about was “Damn, if Vince Vaughn let alone any man did that today, he'd be arrested and thrown in jail.”
And thus the point of this short post – women are now making it illegal to pass shit tests.
I perfectly understand why women have shit tests. It's key to their survival. In the past women would nag or hound their prospective men to see if they could stand up to them as a basic, minimal litmus test to see if said men could stand up to genuine threats. It was also to see if they could essentially enslave a man with ludicrous requirements and demands of his resources. But there was always one key thing about shit tests that made it so any man could pass them. Namely, you wouldn't get thrown in jail or die if you did.
Unfortunately, society and technology have evolved to the point that women are now presenting men with shit tests that in order to pass you must break a law and face jail. “Let's you and him fight.” “Hey bitch, I'm from Fargo and I'm going to forcibly kiss you now.” To playing so hard to get that a man must be so aggressive and persistent he needs to redline the boundary of Stalkerville. And this “raising the stakes” of shit tests is the consequence of two trends.
First, the internet has given women access to nearly all of the 3.5 billion men on the planet and the millions of elusive alpha 10's that reside in this population. I shan't go into the Alpha Widow Fallacy that will doom these women to spinsterhood, but with literally every man on the planet as a potential suitor, women have had to logically increase their filtering methods to find the best mate. This has not only resulted in delusional dating profiles (“i'm a single mom of 3 from 4 different baby daddies, I'm sick and tired of the games, if you can't handle me at my worst, no sex until marriage, swipe left if you're not a Marxist feminist, etc.), but a hightening of the hurdles men must jump to pass a shit test. And there's no bigger shit test to prove there's no bigger alpha than than breaking the law.
Assaulting a man that insulted her.
Lying to the feds about her FansOnly tax evasion.
Or forcibly kissing a woman a la the Vince Vaughn movie.
Shit tests are now increasingly a test as to whether you are “man enough” to break the law for her.
Second, lowering the standards as to what is illegal and a prosecutable offense. This trend I don't believe to be as much as a conscious effort on women to further filter men, as much as it is a byproduct of victimhood politics and socialist parasitism. The tiring ole song of “I have trait X, you don't, you're oppressing me.” And so what was normal (though regrettable) male behavior in the pursuit of women is increasingly becoming illegal (holding her ass on the dance floor, making sexual innuedo, and CERTAINLY telling a woman she's a bitch and then forcibly kissing her) because that results in more victims, more liable offenses, more lawsuits, and more money.
These two trends – where women are increasingly demanding men do quasi-illegal things to woo them and making traditional mate-searching behavior increasingly illegal – put men in an impossible situation. They can certainly pursue the girl and pass the shit test, but there's now a good chance he'll end up in jail. And since Blasey-Ford has proven there is no statue of limitations, nearly every man faces a future risk that nearly all of his previous pursuits of women could at a later point in time be deemed damning by society, potentially even illegal. So the only real men who are going to pass these shit tests are either drunk, stupid, or lack the risk assessment ability to realize what they're doing, while every other man is simply going to bow out, leaving the effective dating pool for women to be a bunch of losers.
Like an increasing amount of my writings, there is no solution. I am merely pointing out a phenomenon. Calmly pouring myself a drink, lighting up a cigar, and watching a spider versus a scorpion duke it on a bored army base in Iraq. But perhaps some of you men will heed this observation, allowing you to realize when it's happening in your life. And if you have the choice of impressing a girl by “drag racing down the street” or just saying, “nah, I'm good” and going home to watch some Hogan's Heroes, I hope you choose Hogan's Heroes and realize that girl was never worth the jail time anyway.
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