Wednesday, December 30, 2020

Women Want to Remove Physical Attraction from Love

I found this an interesting comment on a video of mine.  Not because the comment itself is interesting, but what it says about women and how they WANT to believe the world to be.  At first it may seem she is trying to be nice and kind to men, as well as understanding and equal.  But you really need to understand what she is saying.

She is saying that physical attraction should not be part of love.  That we should all just "love" each other regardless of being ugly or fat or otherwise physically unappealing.  And I would argue (until I start hearing women claim big is not beautiful) that this is the default state of women's minds.  They WANT to believe that physical attraction should not be a prerequisite to love because they DESPERATELY do not want to put the labor, effort and work into being physically attractive.

As I've said before in my book, "The Book of Numbers: Analyzing the ROI on the Pursuit of Women," we have a name for women we like, but just aren't physically attracted to - friends.  But do not think for a second this reality will phase them or wake them up from their Oprah Matrix.

"This is so heartbreaking, I pray that this guy gets to heal whatever wounds that women may have caused him. I don’t support the feminist idea that we women can live without men. We are there to love and support each other. If I were to tell my guy friend to lose 20 pounds because otherwise he will never be loved by anyone . That’d would be so unloving to do because if he is looking for a long term relationship he won’t look for a girl that looks at him as a pice of meat and expects him to look like a CK model, shouldn’t he look for someone who loves him regardless of his imperfections? Because I mean at the end of the day 50 years form now they are both going to be old and their external beauty will be gone. Now if you are telling a friend of your to loose 20 pounds because you genuinely want them to be healthy and you care so much for them that you don’t want to lose them. That is a a more loving approach . You people really need to heal and start to spread more love instead of hate ."

18 comments:

Pelo Loco said...

The day I see women flocking to bald, short, fat guys the way they flock to actors like Brad Pitt and sportsmen like David Beckham we'll talk about "the ladies" being romantic and loving people for whom they really are inside. In the meantime... middle finger to that bullshit.

CBMTTek said...

No one, regardless of sex, ever looked across a room at an unattractive person and said "I am sure they are really nice, I am going to go ask them on a date."

Nope. Never happened. Never will.

In fact, even if you take the sex aspect out of it, people tend to gravitate to people they find good looking. This is reality. If you are in a social situation, seeing a lot of new faces for the first time, you are more likely to approach and start talking with the ones you find better looking.

This is reality. The people insisting that looks should not matter are living in fantasy land.

Beans said...

Oh, women flock to bald, short fat guys as long as BSFGs have scads of money and don't require a prenup.

Funny. Women don't like guys that judge them for their assets, whatever the man finds intriguing or sexy. But they also don't like a player who will boff anything that looks remotely female. "Why won't anyone make love to me" is often followed by "Eww, you're gross..."

They get what they deserve, nothing. Ignored.

There are plenty of fish in the sea who aren't like that. Unfortunately, too many are from foreign lands and are looking to the wedding band as a path to citizenship...

A Texan said...

This woman can eat lots of you know what and drop dead.

It's right up there with these articles about how women become invisible after 50. Well so what, how many slightly younger guys did you turn down in your 20's because you know, you are mature right out of the vagina? Eat it and love it ladies.

Bigboss said...

They have been doing this since the bbw and fat acceptance movement her comment is just a creative way to say she doesn’t want to work for it.

JKoeberlein said...

Exactly. Love is complicated and to deny that is silly and not supported by facts. I love my wife because she is the nicest and sweetest person I know. Her weight has nothing to do with it.

Anonymous said...

Physical attraction is the bait needed to get potential prey on to the hook. This is the hateful tripe of a mid life crisis female desperate to find her 1% soul mate. If you do not know that you are the prey then you should not be playing their game. What she is saying is that men are not allowed to have preferences in their mate because of sexism and the patriarchy or something. IE. If a female shows interest in you, you are bound by the laws of stupidity to just lay there until she is done with your carcass. Man the male is the only being judged solely by the ability to produce for everyone but himself and even then he does not get to judge himself outside the eyes of others. Feel sorrow for those deluded enough to expect the bicycle to care today about the opinion of any fish. Laugh the inability of this princess to lure a plow horse back in to the barn and or stupid enough to take the putrid fish bait that is to maintain her kingdom for her.

Post Alley Crackpot said...

Funny thing about those successful long-term marriages: they see each other still at their best.

"... 50 years [from] now[,] they are both going to be old and their external beauty will be gone. Now if you are telling a friend of [yours] to [lose] 20 pounds ..."

No, I'm telling women to fit their fat fucking arses on those goddamned treadmills and work those flabby muscles in exercise machines because men will want to remember them at their best, not settle for their worst from day one.

Also, women who think this is cool for others to be disgusting and giving them encouragement, shut the fuck up while doing that British calisthenics routine (yoga) of yours so that you can continue not to practise what you preach.

But most of all, you daft fucking bints: learn how to spell, and maybe some of these men will have you despite deep down being a sinking and sucking morass of ignorance and poor decisions that will very obviously transfer to your children.

"Loose" is what your vagina is after taking ten marathons of cock.

"Lose" is what you can afford to do with weight in order to look good.

Fucking get it right.

"At the end of the day 50 years from now ..."

Just no, absolutely fucking no.

But what do you expect from women with poor future time orientations and all that goes with that?

Solid advice: use that extra day to do some exercise while it still matters.

B said...

And the same could be said for the size of yer wallet....THe larger it is, the more attractive women find you.....

But, of course, that shouldn't matter either, right?

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tdcommenter said...

In English, we use the world for love for all types and use it all the time in self-help books, pop songs, sitcoms, and movies. Whereas the ancient Greeks made sure to differentiate between Eros, family love, comradery, a general sense of compassion to all humans, and self-love. Then we have the Cappy's brand of tough love that brings results. I doubt that the commenter's "love" would bring results to her fat friend.

Bill said...

Her wordsalad of a comment is just projection.

Bruce said...

Women are prone to this particular type of idealism, how things should be, but rarely act as if they believe this. Look at what people say not what they do.

Did she leave a picture? Is she unnattractive? Unattractive people wish romantic love wasn't based on looks. Attractive people are glad it is since they have that asset.

Maniac said...

This is more of that whole fat acceptance dejecta. The only men who like fat women are fat men.

'Reality' Doug said...

I almost had a comment to make, but I just didn't quite know what that was. Then I read the comment by @Pelo Loco. Eloquence and brevity. We've all seen the video meme of some Hollywood guy raising his drink. Well done, sir. I add that I am glad to see that the psychological abuse is being recognized, decoded, and staunchly rejected. Sometimes h8e is a virtue.

Tiny Legions said...

My answer to this chick is what the cappy alludes to. "Lets Just Be Friends."

Anonymous said...

Yeah I'm sure all these women preaching about loving a man because of his personality are in a relationship with a short, ugly broke dude who has a wonderful personality. I can just picture this women with this smug look on her face of being a better person than everyone else as she wrote that comment. I'm Willing to bet whatever man she has dated that she didn't assess his net worth, height, head of hair, status among other men before entering a relationship with him. But oops, guess I must be filled with hate making this comment.

BlurbMan said...

Is it better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all? The ladies comment seems to be the latter. She espouses the idea its better not to hurt someones feelings. When the fact is you can do something about your weight, and your health. This shows women's emotionally centered world view.