I've always wanted to address this topic and probably have in the past, but (not to plug the podcast again) in reviewing it I really hit this one out of the park. It is also an important lesson for all the young boys (and men in the dating world) to learn because the two most common reasons the women in your life will give you as to why you're having trouble with girls will be:
1. "Maybe you just attract the wrong type of women" and
2. "Maybe you're just not looking in the right places."
I have a different theory. Well, it isn't a theory, it's a fact. But it will at least salvage your sanity as to why you're seemingly having trouble finding quality girls. You can listen to the whole podcast, but this topic is specifically addressed at the 59:50 mark.