I had received this video of a man telling the story about his friend who is being asked to pay for his daughter's "social work" degree at William and Mary College. The story goes on to show that the man is completely owned by the wife, never stood up for himself, and more or less faces the choice of:
Pay the daughter's way through college
He was eliciting advice, so I provided it for him here.
In short, it is too late for this pour soul (his friend, not him) to do anything about it. He married the wrong woman (a social worker, ie - liberal), paid off her student debt (thereby setting a precedent), has failed to bring his daughter up to appreciate and udnerstand basic economics, and never told either his wife or daughter "no." But while it is too late for this poor guy, it is not to late for you my find young friend.
Learn to control the finances of your wife and your family. If you can't do that, then don't get married.