Ladies you have a choice when it comes to what you want to believe in terms of what intimidates men.
Oprah or the Captain.
Or in other words
"Pretty lies that won't help you in the long run and are more likely to damage you in the long run because they're not based in reality"
"Blunt truth that may be harsh to digest at first, but when you do your life will probably be much happier."
This behooves a question the great Kojak asked many times:
"Who loves ya, baby!?"
The person lying to you or the guy telling the truth.
Oh, you must go to 13:40 mark.