An excerpt from my latest piece at Return of Kings.
opportunity costs are huge. Most men, if they invested their time into
themselves instead of women, would easily boost their lifetime earnings
by over $1 million. We could easily retire at 40. Most of us would
have no mortgage, car loans, or student loans. Not to mention the
mental serenity, peace, and calm that comes with such a life. But there
are also other opportunity costs in the quality of life when you put
wife-hunting ahead of your own life. You forfeit adventure, hobbies,
traveling, intellectualism, philosophy, reading, entrepreneurship—a
nearly limitless number of things you could have pursued, enjoyed, even
mastered—making your life a genuinely interesting one, had you not
wasted your time on bars, nightclubs, or Tinder."