I am first and foremost for freedom.
I want humans, regardless of race, gender, sexual preference, etc. etc. politically correct obligatory disclaimer crap to get the commie leftist asshole nazis off my ass, etc.
to be free humans pursuing their happiness unhindered.
And though I take a strong stance and insist men and women are predisposed by their sex to play certain roles in society, I will admit that is not always the case. Also, I will admit that it is best that ONE person lead and ONE person follow, REGARDLESS OF SEX.
In short, I put more importance and emphasis on leadership dynamics than mythical gender equality because, frankly, it is more important to have ONE leader than multiple leaders regardless of who has what gender and what gender has historically been given presumed leadership.
Thus, why it's OK to have a gal in charge.
Not every man is born an alpha male, kick ass, John Wayne, type guy....you know...like me (just kidding...no not really).
Nor is every female born an submissive, compliant chick.
And I will even go so far as to say that there are many instances where the man does not wear the pants in the family and the woman does AND that such an arrangement is OPTIMAL because, once again, it is better to have ONE leader than two, regardless of genders.
The reason I bring this up is because not all men can be alpha and neither can all women be the first officer. Sometimes women DO display superior leadership skills and sometimes men DO display superior supportive skills and it is neither your nor my right to criticize such arrangements. Truth be told, if we are going for maximum freedom and maximum happiness, there are some men out there who need a female leader and there are some female leaders that need some supporting males. We should not judge or be critical of such arrangements, but supportive because...well...it works.
You all know the couple. The woman wears the pants in the family and the guy is a little timid.
But does it work?
Sure it does!
Sometimes men aren't cut out to be the leader.
And sometimes women aren't cut out to be the follower.
Both should thank the heavens they have each other and none of us should judge them for it.