"Deep Down Inside"
I was tuning into the "Masculine Geek Podcast." Specifically, episode 7 where TJ Martinell regaled the story of a therapist who confessed unto to TJ,
"Every young girl who comes in and talks to me...EVERY ONE OF THEM...tells me deep down inside all they want is to get married and have kids."
This was couched in just one of the unlimited conversations men have had about women since the dawn of time.
"Women say X, when they really want Y."
"Women do A, when they actually do B."
"And women will claim F, when in reality it's really Q that they believe."
And as is with all these types of conversations, men are left with the reality that women simply are not going to be direct, forthright, or honest with their intentions, and its up to us to interpret what they really want. This results in a cute little "dance of the sexes" where the boys chase the girls, awkwardly trying to "figure them out," but inevitably achieving victory as the boys finally get the girls (....and in all likelihood the girls divorce the boys with life-long alimony and no visitation rights to the children).
Cute as this is, gamefully-playful as it might be, and even hard-wired into the female sex's genetic and biological hardwiring as it is, this coy, indirect, and confusing characteristic of women gets tiring an exhausting after a while. Men get older, their testosterone goes down, their opportunity costs for playing this game goes up as they make more money, plus it's just plain beaten out of us. Life is short, it inevitably ends, and men's patience for games drops below their desire to have sex. We move onto focus on our careers, make money, make a life for ourselves, and focus on systems that are logical, meritorious, and provide a return on investment for our time. But whereas men inevitably quit this mating dance and move-on to focus on the real world, women prefer to continue the game. And not only do they prefer to continue the game, but institutions and authoritative entities within society encourage them to do so. And there are drastic costs for being intellectually-dishonest with yourself.
For example the wage gap.
Women deep down inside know that they make less money than men because they major in worthless subjects, don't put in as many hours, and inevitably drop out of the work force to have kids. If women really wanted success in the working world, they would acknowledge what they already know, go into STEM, go into a CPA program, learn to code, and close the gap. But for whatever reason (be it genetic, biological, or socio-political propaganda), they prefer to "play the game" and act ignorantly coy about basic labor market economics.
Another example would be being fat.
EVERY, SINGLE, WOMAN deep down inside knows men don't like fat chicks. But the mental acrobatics they and society will go through to lie to themselves, and convince themselves otherwise is amazing. "Fat acceptance," "big is beautiful," shaming men for NOT liking fat chicks. They actually think social propaganda will override men's hardwired biology. The result is not only no man asking them out on dates, but health risks due to obesity, not to mention mental-illness where you start to mutilate your body with piercings, tattoos and ear plugs as a protesting, "anti-beauty" form of beauty.
There are many more examples of where living in denial results in real world costs and consequences, but the point is the majority of women would prefer to continue the dance, no matter what the costs are to their real-world lives. And, worse, the majority of society and society's institutions will indulge them. But where believing "big is beautiful" or majoring in sociology will lead to a successful career has a price, the biggest price women pay in their lives is the one TJ Martinell mentioned before - forfeiting a husband and children. Because while "deep down inside" having a husband and children is indeed the most important, hard-wired, undeniable thing in women's lives, there's an amazing amount of lies, propaganda, and even outright bullying that...
"You're a strong independent woman, who don't need no man."
And women's desire to continue the dance, lie to themselves, and believe in the propaganda costs them this most important thing in life.
Too Weak to Go Against the Herd
At the core of women forfeiting the most important thing is their lives is another genetic hard-wiring - conformity. The short version is while men were out hunting mammoth women had to get along with the other women at the tribe which resulted in a social-hierarchy where getting along with everybody else was key to survival. This also had the unfortunate side-consequence of backstabbery, gossip, and even more passive-aggressive backstabbery as women's only form of defense was subterfuge and politicking instead of physical confrontation.
This then leads to...
Feminist Shaming and Bullying
It's one thing if Tina is conforming with the cold-shoulder fashion this year, and Amy was conforming with the maxi-dress last year, and you decide to do both. But that's fashion. Not the most important thing in your life, which is (again "deep down inside") "to get married and have kids."
But what if a group of women decided to expand conforming with the herd to include things that went beyond what you were wearing, what you were eating, whether you agreed that Leslie was queen bee, or that you were all going to watch Empire that year? What if it went into other aspects of your life that actually were VERY important?
We can debate whether feminism is simply the "equal treatment of women," or a man-hating psycho-cult of socialist parasites later. But what it no doubt is, is a cabal of self-declared queen bee women dictating to other, younger women what it means to be a woman and belong to the herd. It's unique in that, whereas in the past, women needed men to survive, today they no longer have to consider what men want because there is the government. The government (through taxing disproportionately men) can transfer wealth to women, support them and their children, with no requirements, standards or expectations of a husband or father, because there is none - there is only "Government Check.". On the face of this, this "freedom" may seem liberating, but it kicks out the most important thing in women's lives - a husband and children.
But this is where the propaganda, lies, and bullying come in.
Feminism (with the help of socialist political parties, government, public schools, media and colleges) have totally, thoroughly, and brilliantly brainwashed women into ignoring what they want most in life, and replaced it with politics, careers, student debts, materialism, masters degrees, commutes and taxes. This is fine as no good person is going to begrudge women their political preferences, the pursuit of an education or career, nor their right to spend their money how they please. But when they put it above (once again, "deep down inside") the love and affection of a husband and children, they're lying to themselves and only hurting themselves. However, DARE a woman express her true desire to get married and have kids, the "hive" of queen bee feminists will come crashing down on them, shaming women for being "stay at home moms" or "relying on a man."
This then pits poor, young women's genetic conditions against one another. They (once again) "deep down inside" want to have a husband and children, but if they betray the hive, and upset the feminist hierarchy, they will be ostracized, they won't belong, and they will be kicked out of the club. Today, with the brainwashing starting at the age of 5 and with trillions of government and corporate dollars spent annually on advocating "Team Feminism" it's very apparent which side they succumb to. Most young women today "don't need no man," and are all aggressively pursuing careers and educations. Thus the official veneer of "I don't need a man, I'm my own woman," while late at night, after getting drunk at the night club, they cry themselves to sleep because they "can't find a man."
Feminism 1, Love 0.
Cartelish Behavior Has Benefits
Once women are brainwashed to go down this path, there are, however, some fringe benefits, primarily originating from the nature of "economies to scale" and effectively "cartelish behavior."
The classical economic incentive of forming a "cartel" is to limit supply to increase price. Women as a group are (effectively) less interested in family formation than they are their careers and education. Laden with debt, they aren't ready to get married until they're well into their late 20's, even early 30's. Nor do they have any interest in getting married until they get their career going, even attaining their masters degrees. This has resulted in later and less marriages, a low birth rate, and an increase in women in the work force as well as their salaries. It also makes marriagable women HIGHLY valuable in that they're so rare. It also makes what women remain who are at least tacitly interested in marriage valuable as well.
You would think you'd find some empirical economic pricing data that would show an increased price in wedding rings, engagement rings, or average money spent on weddings confirming the "higher price" paid to women. But at the same time interest in marriage on the part of men has dropped dramatically as well (which is a discussion for another time). But the price increase in women has moved from the marriage market to the non-marriage market - specifically in the form of "sugar daddy sites," porn, and non-porn internet attention.
Men may not want to get married, but they will spend up to $200 just for ONE DATE through sites like "Name Your Price." Your average "sugar baby" who is on the payroll of a man can earn $3,000 a month for regularly providing company and sex. Webcam models can make on average $50,000 from the comforts of their own bed. And you don't even have to do porn or prostitution - you can just sell selfies for $5,000 a month.
This is all great news for women who *officially* value their careers and educations above husbands and children. Just because they dried up the supply of women on the marriage market, doesn't mean men demand sex any less. An additional added benefit is you don't even need to physically be there, physically touching a man in order to make money off of your beauty. You can continue to cash in on your looks with really none of the traditional obligations that would come with being with a man.
But *unofficially* where (COUGH, once again, "deep down inside") women just want to get married and have kids, such a lifestyle - easy and profitable as it may be - does not scratch that hard-wired biological itch.
Genetic predisposition to conformity and compliance within the female hive aside, given the cacophony of constant "women are equal to men" propaganda we've heard since the 60's, I feel it necessary to hold women to men's standards. I truly do not want to be sexist. And if women are truly equal to men, then they should be ashamed of being too intellectually weak to acknowledge what they want "deep down inside," and consequently too cowardly to stand up to feminism and feminists and say
"No, I want a husband and children. I don't want to work or commute or wake up at 6AM or look at a screen. I don't want an MBA or a Masters in Sociology. I don't want to pay taxes and end up a spinster. I want a strong man who will rock my world in bed, 4 children to raise, love and cherish, who will also give me grandchildren that I can spoil rotten when I'm old. I want a family, I want love, I want what I want."
However, it's very obvious which side they have chosen, whether coerced through shaming, bullying, ostracization or not. Women are increasingly choosing a relationship with government, politics, feminism, careers, commutes, and themselves over a relationship with a husband and children. And they do so not because "deep down inside" they want to, but because they lack the intellectual strength and independence to simply tell the propagandists "no" and actually enjoy what pathetically short lives they have on this planet on what they truly want.
Actions vs. Words vs. Effective Reality
This sadly results in what I like to call the "My Bipolar Girlfriend Axiom," which simply states;
"It doesn't matter if your girlfriend actually has Bipolar Disorder or claims to have it as a weapon to excuse unacceptable behavior. In either case she's psycho and you should dump her ass."
And this axiom applies to modern day women as well.
"It doesn't matter if deep down inside she wants to have a husband and children. Her actions creates the reality that she effectively doesn't."
Alas, why I find the statement and truism
"Deep down inside women just want to get married and have children"
But ultimately for everybody it's moot. That's nice you girls want that. That's great. And it's 100% natural. But the problem is merely stating this reality (mis)leads men into thinking there's hope that women effectively want to get married, when in reality it's simply not possible. Women's actions is all that matters, no matter what they truly believe in their hearts. Men cannot commit to a serious relationship such as marriage based on theory or what women want "deep down inside."
So boys, yes, it is true. Women truly do want marriage and children more than anything else in the world. But their actions prove they effectively value their politics, careers, educations and feminism more. This makes marriage today not only unacceptable, but impossible, tragically despite what women truly want. Alas, too bad, so sad, but that's reality. And at least men live in reality.
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