I rarely say things are a "must read" or a "must listen" because in actuality they aren't. Most of us are already too busy and engaged in highly productive endeavors that to "read this book" or "see this movie" just isn't worth sacrificing something else we already have going on.
However, this is worth listening to.
The reason it's worth listening to is most of you are going to go off and get married. Half of you will get divorced. And I want you to understand what it's like after you get divorced so you may more fully assess whether you want to get married in the first place. Adam (the man in the podcast) is doing WELL, SPECTACULAR given the situation he's in. And still it's painful to hear how cleaning his car, or organizing his apartment, or just focusing on work is what are the granular, daily steps he is taking to keep it together.
Also keep in mind this is a real man with a real life and has done more in his life than most people will do in 10. And if a wife of questionable value just ups and leaves him AND it puts him in this state of impulse power only, I can only imagine when a girl you guys have oneitis for leaves you AND you are not the man Adam is, you'd be an inconsolable pile of goo.
Make damn sure the girl you're going to get married to is the one. And make damn sure you are strong enough to continue if she decides to " I'm not haaaapppppyyyy" you and go away.