Tuesday, September 29, 2020

Analyzing the ROI of the Pursuit of Women - 3 Hours and 20 Minutes of "Swiping"

 In preparation for my speech with Rule Zero, I've been confirming figures and finalizing numbers for my speech "Analyzing the ROI of the Pursuit of Women."  But in my research I came across just a devastating piece of data.  Namely, how many swipes a man needs to get 3 dates.

Turns out the answer is 16,500.

I did some quick math and if you assume .75 seconds per swipe, that's 3.3 hours of just swiping.  That doesn't include the many more hours of time spent messaging over 500 matches, counter message, and inevitably landing a date.

And keep in mind this is just ONE STATISTIC.

I will be publishing my findings later either via seminar format or book, but for now, good god almighty boys.  Your life is just too damn short and too damn precious to be wastiing on this hopeless pursuit of getting 3 dates after 16,500 swipes.  I do not fully side with MGTOW, but good god, women have truly become delusional when it comes to their dating expectations and their expectations of men.

Go work out, go pursue your career, go do anything but get on these freaking dating apps as you give your thumb arthritis.


sunny said...


Anonymous said...

I tried online dating years ago and concluded that women simply weren't motivated. In the intervening years, I have been looking for the root cause of it and have come up empty. Still, without a balance of motivation from both parties, it just won't work.

Tucanae Services said...

The real answer is the same answer since at least the founding of the country:

-- let the woman chase you.

How can that be applied all these years? Then you the male are not self aware. The display behavior of human females is a mating behavior. "The greatest trick of the devil was deceiving humanity that he does not exist." Same could apply to most women in tricking men into thinking they were the pursuer.

So turning that on its ear is to let the woman chase you. Males are the gateway to long term relationships. The less you give a damn the more likely your ability to control the situation increases. The trick is having the apparent resource base for them to be interested in you. That's why we see the entire female pool chasing the 10%. Its all counter-intuitive but that is what is in play.

Joe Bar said...

I have seen this. Look, I'm just an old, married guy. I have seen young men, in the locker room, at the gym, frantically right sweeping on EVERY girl. Insane. So glad I missed all this.