Matt Forney interviewed me on his podcast last week and has it posted. It was largely about my new book, but the conversation took an interesting turn and an important lesson was learned - no guy really enjoys treating women like shit.
We just don't.
We'd much prefer to be kind, charming, or at least civil. Sadly, to have a modicum of success with today's women you do need to set aside your preferences and act aloof, indifferent, and like a jerk as those are the rules. It takes some doing and it can be done (it has to be), but I NEVER liked it. It never seemed natural. Always twinged when I did it.
Anyway, just wanted it down in the history books that men don't enjoy it.